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Vernal Equinox

Happy Spring! I was beyond delighted this morning when I received my weekly email from The Farmer’s Almanac (seriously) reminding of today’s importance – the vernal equinox. Having very little idea as to what that meant (but safely assuming it meant daytime and nighttime were supposed to be equal amounts of time), I began searching for deeper insights. The first things that I came upon were all about the gravitational traditions of the day – namely the egg and broom balancing acts. I’d heard of the egg trick (you can stand an egg upright on it’s pointy side or something), but I had NEVER heard of the broom trick.

I sprung to action and produced this:

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Pretty cool, no? Weirdly, the site of the vertical broom caused my small dog, Max, great distress. He was literally howling at the thing.

I was about to send it to friends with happy tidings for a happy “Vernal Equinox”, when I decided to google “broom balancing” to make sure this wasn’t something that could happen on the other 364 days of the year….the results were mixed, but the message was pretty clear. You can balance a broom at any time. It has nothing to do with the alignment of the earth and the sun.  Feeling a little defeated, I put the broom away.

I’m not sure if I believe that this can happen on just ANY old day, but I’m sure I won’t remember to test it again until next year…

What do you think? Doesn’t this look totally weird?

 

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Hiring a Wedding Photographer

Many brides are comfortable with such priorities as reception site or catering selection, but may not be as familiar with the process of hiring the right wedding photographer. Wedding photography is one of the most important aspects of your day; consider these important tips before making your choice.

Find the Right Wedding Photography Pro

The Selection Process

Start by compiling a list of potential photographers and commence the meet and greet. Browsing through our list of Preferred Local Wedding Photographers is a great way to start. When meeting with potential photographers, you’ll need to consider the following.

Chemistry
Brides often underestimate the importance of the photographer’s personality, yet this person will end up being a very personal guest at your most important event. Evaluate carefully whether you feel comfortable with this person. Some of the most beautiful moments happen behind the scenes – while the bride is dressing, while the couple steals a kiss – and you should feel comfortable inviting the photographer to capture these moments. First find a wedding photographer you like as a person, then evaluate the artistic criteria.

Review the Portfolio
Seasoned wedding photographers have what is called a “book,” which is a portfolio of their best work. Evaluating a photographer’s portfolio depends on your own stylistic and artistic preferences. His or her work should match your tastes and style. Make sure the images speak to you and reflect your personal visions for your wedding day. Look for crisp images, thoughtful composition, and good lighting. Also ask to see the shots from a complete wedding, that way you can see it all – not just the highlights – and you will have a better feel for his or her ability to capture your day.

Questions to Ask

Before hiring your wedding photographer, make sure you have answered these important questions.

Who will be taking the pictures?
Make sure that the photographer whose portfolio you review will be the actual person who takes the pictures at your wedding. The person whose name is on the contract should be the same person you met with. Some contracts claim the studio’s right to send any staff photographer to your wedding. Do not sign if you do not agree with this policy.

What is the photographer’s primary style?
Make sure your photographer knows exactly what you want. Do you want mostly journalistic style or formal poses? Many photographers claim to do both, but in reality, most are better at one or the other, so make sure you know his or her strengths and background to ensure you get the wedding photos you want.

Do you shoot mostly in color, black and white, or both?
While some images call for color, other moments are best captured in black and white. Your photographer should have experience with both and be able to customize to meet your needs.

What’s included?
Photographers often offer package prices or hourly options. If you choose a package, make sure you know what is included. Will you get a disc of the images or will you have to purchase them from a site where the photographer hosts them? Is an album included? If you go with someone hourly, ask the same questions so you know how much it will cost to actually obtain your images.

Are you familiar with the location?
Your photographer should be familiar with the ceremony and reception site so that he or she can quickly and efficiently capture the best shots.

Who are your references?
Call each reference and ask whether or not the person was satisfied with the overall experience and received the desired photos.

Working Together

Once you have found the wedding photographer with the skill set, style, vision, and personality to suit your needs, you must schedule follow-up meetings to discuss specifics and plan your wedding photography. Together you will decide how many hours your photographer will spend at your wedding, your overall vision, and specific photo suggestions.

Plan Your Album
Define and articulate your expectations and desires. You should discuss everything with your photographer prior to the wedding to ensure you get the wedding album you envision. Visualize in advance what your wedding photos will look like. Consider whether you foresee black and white or color. Do you prefer a soft touch or crisp sharp images? Do you like matte or glossy finish? With or without borders? You get the picture. Our list of creative wedding pictures is a good starting point in determining the photos you want in your album.

Plan the wedding day photography from beginning to end. Try to visit the location with your photographer to preview the site. This will help determine lighting conditions, photo locations, and alternatives in case of inclement weather.

Let the photographer know the sequence of activities and who, what, when, and where you want to photograph. Your photographer is not a mind reader and will not inherently know who your Aunt Tilly is and the importance of capturing a photo of the two of you.

Get Everything in Writing
To avoid any confusion, all of the details that you have painstakingly discussed should be in writing. Read the contract carefully, especially the fine print.

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Well-heeled Wedding

 

SoleSocietyYou know it and we know it.

You deserve to win.

Your bridesmaids are the best, most loyal & trustworthy and therefore deserving-of-free-things girls around.  They also have fabulous taste and a discerning eye for quality. They won’t just wear anything – nor should they have to.

 

Your wedding isn’t just another weekend long party for them, it is the weekend, the focal point of their entire social season. The wedding day is not just a day, but the moment that they have probably been waiting for as long as you.

Your joys are their greatest pleasures. Obviously.

Recognizing all of this, our stylish sisters at Sole Society have come together with the satirical voices at Survive Wedding Season to host a contest – just for  you.

Simply jump onto the site and in your most eloquent prose, please explain to them why it is that you deserve to win!

http://surviveweddingseason.com/?p=4524

 

 

 

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Training to Get Married

Jane Blair, author of “Get Married This Year: 365 Days to ‘I Do’” offers this insightful and valuable piece on how to make yourself the best ‘you’, that you can be.

In Jane’s words: If you want to marry the best possible person for you, start with being the absolute best you can be.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/janet-blair-page/training-to-get-married-t_b_1265565.html?ref=weddings

 

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Wedding Dress Style 101

 

The ever-expanding options for wedding dresses can make a search for the perfect gown overwhelming.  But before you begin your quest, it is helpful to know the basics of wedding dress styles.  Here is a handy little primer that can be useful before you head to a bridal salon thanks to our friends at eleGala:

A wedding dress is typically described by five parts: silhouette, sleeves, bodice, neckline, and train. For each part of the dress, there are many different styles.

Wedding Dress Silhouette

The silhouette is the basic shape of the gown.

Ball Gown

The ball gown is characterized by a fitted bodice and a waistline leading to a very full skirt (think Cinderella).

Empire Gown

An empire-style gown features a high waistline (right under the bust), falling to a slimmer (yet not body-fitting) skirt.

A-Line or Princess Gown

An A-line or princess shape features vertical seams flowing from the shoulders down to a flared skirt, creating and inverted V or A shape.

Sheath Gown

The slim sheath closely follows the line of the body, creating a form-fitting look.

Mermaid Gown

The mermaid style is form fitting at the top, similar to the sheath, and then flows out around the knees, creating a mermaid shape.

Wedding Dress Sleeves

For wedding gowns, sleeves are more than just long or short. Read below to decide which type of sleeve is best for you.

T-Shirt Sleeves

As the name indicates, these sleeves resemble those of your favorite T-shirt. This style is a good option for brides who want to cover their upper arms but don’t want to go all the way.

Cap Sleeves

Shorter than a T-shirt sleeve and more rounded, therefore a little more baring. Cap sleeves work best on women with fairly slender and well-toned upper arms.

Off-the-Shoulder Sleeves

These sleeves cover the upper part of the arms while leaving the tops of the shoulders exposed. The sleeves also cover enough of the upper arm to make most feel comfortable.

3/4-Length Sleeves

This style has a classic, ladylike feel, with the sleeves ending midway between the elbow and the wrist. An elegant look suited for a formal or winter wedding.

Spaghetti Straps

These are skinny straps with no sleeves attached. Not for the “arm shy,” this style works best for brides with well-toned upper arms or who just want to look sexy!

Sleeveless

Today, strapless gowns with no sleeves are actually the most popular choice among brides. This style works for many body types.

Wedding Dress Bodice

As the name indicates, the bodice represents the “body” of the gown, or the section between the neckline and skirt.

Corset

This is a form-fitting bodice, complete with boning and lace-up or snap closures. This bodice style is fashioned after the ladies undergarment with the same name.

Empire

This bodice style ends just below the bust and flares into a full skirt. This style is flattering on almost all body types.

Halter

The halter is a sleeveless bodice that wraps around the neck – sometimes backless, always sexy.

Midriff

This bodice fits closely around the mid-rib cage and is a great choice for accentuating a small waist.

Princess-Line

This sleek bodice, characterized by two vertical seams that travel from bust to hem, is super-slimming and gives the illusion of extra height.

Surplice

The surplice bodice cross-wraps the fabric in either the front or back.

Tank

The tank is a short, sleeveless top with wide armholes. This popular style looks great on most body types.

Wedding Dress Neckline

The most noticeable part of the dress in your wedding photos, the right neckline can create a truly stunning wedding gown. Below, we help you decipher the different styles.

Off-the-Shoulder

As the name implies, this neckline sits below the shoulders, showcasing a woman’s collarbone and shoulders, while sleeves cover part of the upper arm. This neckline flatters almost all figures.

Portrait

The portrait neckline is similar to an off-the-shoulder style but additional fabric covers the shoulders. The portrait neckline is characterized by a wide, soft scoop from the tip of one shoulder to the tip of the other.

Sweetheart

Shaped like the top half of a heart, the sweetheart neckline’s ability to accentuate decolletage makes it a great option for fuller-chested women.

Sabrina/Bateau

This shape is cut straight across, following the curve of the collarbone to almost the tip of the shoulders, showing less decolletage. This neckline can be paired with sleeves or a sleeveless style.

Halter

The halter wraps around the back of the neck, creating deep armholes. The halter is often paired with a backless style, creating a very sexy look.

Scoop

The classic scoop is a U-shaped neckline and flatters almost all body types. For a sexier look, it can be cut low. The scoop will often continue on the back of the dress.

Jewel or T-Shirt

Similar to an actual T-shirt, the jewel neckline is round and sits at the base of the throat. This neckline creates a bustier look.

V-Neck

This neckline dips in the front into a V-shape. Since it de-emphasizes the bustline, this neckline is good for B or C cups.

Wedding Dress Train

More than any other element of the wedding dress, the bridal train has the ability to transform. It’s the elongated back portion of the gown that lies on the floor and trails out behind the bride as she walks, giving her a majestic appearance. The formality of your wedding should influence the type of train you go with; the length should be consistent with the location and time of your wedding.

Royal

The longest and most formal train, the royal train extends beyond 10 feet from your waist and is appropriate for the grandest of occasions when the bride really wants to make a statement.

Cathedral Train

Another dramatic and formal train, the cathedral train extends about seven feet from your waist.

Chapel Train

Extending about five feet from your waist, the chapel train makes a significant statement.

Court Train

Extending about three feet from the waist, the court train is slightly longer than the sweep train and can be used at most ceremonies.

Sweep

Barely “sweeping” the ground behind your dress, the sweep train is the shortest train style (apart from not having one). It’s also the most versatile, as it can be worn at just about any type of ceremony.

Watteau

Characterized by the way a single panel attaches to the top of your dress at the shoulders or upper back, the watteau train can fall to the length of your dress or it can extend behind for a more formal look.

 

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To Invite, or Not Invite…How to Effortlessly Manage Your Guest List

So you’ve got the date, the venue, and some ideas for the decor and theme, but sometimes the real wedding planning stress begins when it comes to trimming down your guest list.

Don’t despair, we’ve got your covered.  Thanks to our friends at EleGala (the pros on Wed-iquette), here is a framework to think about when putting together your list, and some tips on who to invite and who to not worry about:

Paring the guest list down to size can be as formidable as predicting the weather for an outdoor spring ceremony. To determine who makes the cut, ask yourself these “to invite or not invite” qualifying questions. If you answer mostly yeses, extend the invite. If nays have the majority, save the postage – and the meal cost.

1) Guests from Afar

Some people (siblings, close friends) will make your A-list regardless of where they live, but others (second cousins, old sorority pals) fall into a gray area when they reside far from your wedding locale.  These long-distance guests may be unable to travel to your nuptials, so is an invite merely a gift request in disguise? Decide on a case-by-case basis.

  • Have you seen or spoken to them within the last six months?
  • Have you exchanged invites to other milestone events (their wedding, graduations, hallmark birthdays)?
  • Are they close with other invited guests?

Rule of Thumb: If your special day would not feel complete without your college roommate who now resides in New Zealand, go ahead and send an invitation. Let your guests decide for themselves whether or not they want to travel.

2) Pint-Sized Partiers

Not inviting children can make for tough planning for some of your guests, but the opposite can make for some interesting moments you hadn’t included in your wedding day dreams – like crying babies during the vows.

  • Are you planning a relaxed daytime event?
  • Does your budget and venue size make inviting all children a possibility?
  • Can your caterer provide kid-friendly menu choices at a reduced cost?

Rule of Thumb: Have a blanket no-children policy or make a sweeping cut based on age (no one under 13), as picking and choosing may offend some parents. If you anticipate complaints, schedule a black-tie evening affair, which is generally understood to be a kid-free zone. 

3) “And Guest”

If space or budget won’t allow the extra guests, some single pals may have to come solo.

  • Is this person in a committed relationship (living together or engaged)?
  • Will s/he be the token bachelor or bachelorette?
  • Must s/he travel and plan overnight accommodations?

Rule of Thumb
Sure it’s nice to let your unmarried friends bring a date, but unless that date is a long-term love (living together or engaged), you don’t have to send the “and Guest” invite. Just be sure to handle seating arrangements with care – your single friend probably won’t appreciate a table of couples sharing stories about how they fell in love. 

4) Office Space

Deciding which coworkers to include depends on the size of your office and the nature of your relationships.

  • Do you regularly socialize outside of work?
  • Is your office or department close-knit and small (fewer than five people)?
  • Is your work relationship with a few direct supervisors or assistants particularly close?

Rule of Thumb
If you work in a small office, best to follow the all-or-none policy. In a larger office, you can safely invite your happy-hour crew or direct supervisors and assistants without incurring the wrath of the uninvited. 

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Surprise! It’s our wedding…

There is something undeniably charming about a couple who surprises their guests with a wedding. So goes the story of Kc and Justin who yearned for a low key affair with close friends and family. Under the guise of a J. Press created “engagement party”, the couple arranged for a family only vows-ceremony followed by a ‘reception’ at the National Sculpture Garden. Friends arrived ready to toast the engaged couple and instead were treated to a picnic-style wedding reception.

DC Jazz Wedding

Guests sat on vintage quilts while listening to live music from the jazz group Natty Beaux and nibbling on a variety of cheeses, crackers, breads, jams, and fruit, which were displayed atop whitewashed wine crates. “It was laid-back and comfortable, but a little more upscale than our typical Friday night summertime jazz picnics,” says Kc.

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DIY Giant Paper Roses

How about a new take on flowers?  How beautiful are these Giant Paper Roses?!

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Recently featured by Morgan Levine on Martha Stewart, thanks to Green Wedding Shoes for sharing the instructions, you can now make your own.  Here’s how:

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Materials (to make one giant rose):
• 1 Roll of floral tape
• 6 18-gauge floral stem wire (can find it here)
• 4 Doublette crepe paper folds for petals (can find it here)
• 1 Doublette crepe paper fold in green for leaves, calyx, stem
• 1 round pencil
• Craft Glue (we used this kind)
• Crepe paper templates (download from Martha Stewart)
• 3 copies of teardrop template
• 8 copies of the heart-shaped template
• 2 copies of the leaf template
• 1 copy of the calyx template

Step 1: Cut the petals

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Cut 5-6 teardrop petals and 15-6 heart-shaped petals from the petal colored crepe paper.

VERY IMPORTANT: Crepe paper is directional so it matters which way you’re cutting the paper. Make sure the grain is vertical when you’re cutting the flower pieces.

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Stack 2 pieces of crepe paper on top of each other then place 1 copy of template over the crepe paper and staple. I don’t recommend cutting more than 2 layers of crepe paper at a time since the edges won’t be cut as cleanly.

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Repeat until all of your petals are cut

Step 2: Cut the leaves + calyx

Cut 3 leaves and 1 calyx from the green crepe paper.

Step 3: Make the rose stem

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Take 3 pieces of stem wire and wrap in floral tape.

Step 4: Shape the petals

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With both hands, pull from the center of the petal outward. This will create a cupping of the paper (which is what gives it the petal-like quality)

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Turn petal over and use the round pencil to curl the top of the petal.

Step 5: Create the rose bud – the inner part of the rose

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Take one teardrop shaped petal and wrap around the taped floral wire from Step 3. Use more floral tape to secure. Repeat working your way around the floral wire until all of the teardrop shaped petals are use.

Step 6: Make the rose bloom –the outer part of the rose

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Take one heart-shaped petal and wrap around the rose bud, secure with floral tape. Repeat until all petals have been used.

Step 7: Make the leaf-stems

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Take 3 loose pieces of floral wire and using craft glue, wrap each one with green crepe paper. Take one leaf and 1 crepe paper wrapped floral wire from step 10 and glue together. Repeat 2 more times.

Step 8: Add calyx to rose

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Wrap the calyx around the base of the rose bloom and secure with floral tape.

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Cover the floral tape area with more crepe paper.

Step 9: Add leaf-stems to rose

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Using craft glue, secure each of the 3 leaf-stems to the rose stem. I found it helpful to use binder clips to hold the stems together while the glue was drying.

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And there you go! It might take a little time, but a great (and pretty awesome) alternative to real flowers for your bouquet – plus you can keep these forever!

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big thanks to Studio Castillero for the photos + to reader Nata for the DIY created for GWS

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Truth in Greeting Cards…

A little uncouth, but hardly untrue.

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Perfect Party

There is no such thing as a perfect party, but there are certainly lots of spectacular ones. Wouldn’t you love to be cocktail-ing here on a mid-summer night’s eve?

You can almost see the sterling/crystal/wooden bowls of SoleMates on the table!

Dinner Party

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